Essential Number Two, Your Plan!

Hello, Happy Brides!

So we go forth on our quest to make wedding dress shopping easier for you, with Randy Fenoli’s help, of course! In chapter two he addresses season, time, place, location and most importantly your budget.

If you establish your budget early all other decision will be easier to make. When I say budget I don’t mean just for your dress, but for everything that your wedding entails. (E.g. Venue, food, music, your dress accessories and alterations) This step will help you avoid falling in love with a dress that is not within your budget.

By setting your budget and being honest about it to yourself and to your consultant from the beginning, you can better enjoy shopping for your gown and avoid frustration and disappointment. 

“When you’re with the right consultant, she should be able to help you find the perfect dress at any budget.”- Randy Fenoli

We all love flipping through wedding magazines and the gowns pictured in these magazines are amazing, it’s so easy to fall in love with them! Once you tear out or fold one of those pages bring it along with you for your appointment and show your consultant the style you’re looking for.

Understand that once you set a wedding budget you can always “move” money around. Perhaps you can “borrow” money from what you’ve set aside for your flowers or instead of splurging on the food you can take a snippet of that money and use it to expand your dress budget. Keep alterations in mind when setting your dress budget. Any gown you purchase, no matter the price, will require at the least a hem and a bustle.

Once you’ve established your budget you’re one step closer to finding your dream dress but first you must choose the Seasons, the Time of Day and Location. In my next post I’ll be going over how these details go hand in hand with selecting your dream dress. Till then!

Jackie S. of Sposa Mia Couture

Your Number One Essential, Your Story

Your Story- referencing Randy Fenoli’s book, It’s All About The Dress

“…one thing remains the same for all couples. Each has a unique, intimate, and personal story to tell.”- Randy Fenoli

Randy mentions in his book that the details of your wedding speak to your guests about who you and your husband are as a couple: Your attire says, “This is our taste level in clothing.” The food you choose to serve at your reception says, “This is the food we would serve you if you were guests in our home.” The music you play says, “This is the music we like to dance and party to.” Every detail you choose to display will convey to your guests your story, your image and your taste. And in order to begin your story, what will your guests be looking at? …You and your dress.

For years now I, Jackie S., have seen brides choose their dresses relying on old fashion rules and out dated traditions. (E.g. I HAVE to wear white or what will my mother-in-law think. I can’t wear pearls because it’s bad luck.) Similarly Randy explains in his book that woman purchase their dresses with preconceived notions about what they think they are “supposed” to wear, or what they were told they “should” wear. Also, details are approved by mothers, aunts, and friends who have already been through the wedding process. But what you, as a modern bride, need to know is that today’s weddings have become more about the couple’s self-expression. However, Randy Rule #1 may apply, if a bride wants to honor a family tradition. (E.g. wearing your great grandmother’s veil) Now let’s get down to the nitty-gritty! In order to establish your story you must ask yourself several questions regarding you and your husband-to-be’s relationship. Write the questions and answers down on a piece of paper and go into detail. Don’t forget to start when you and your love bug first met. Here are some questions that I came up with to help you figure out your story. You can use these or come up with your own

• What are you and your fiancé’s favorite colors?
• What are you and your fiancé’s favorite colors?
• What are your favorite or ideal places to visit?
• What is your favorite type of music?
• What is your favorite food to eat?
• What are your individual styles?
• Where did you meet?
• Where was your first date?
• Where was “the question” popped?
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  The most important part of this step is to establish your story, embrace it and express it

Jackie S. of Sposa Mia Couture

Couture for Less!

Hey, Girls!

Our Dream Dress Sale ends after this weekend, so take advantage of the amazing savings on designer gowns! A huge selection of our sample dresses are at 40% - 75% off. Don't wait until the last minute or all the good ones will be gone!

Hello, Beautiful!

Hello, Beautiful!



Hello there, Brides to be!
We're one day closer to Randy Fenoli's arrival! (Call Sposa Mia for more info! 956-683-8740) So let me begin by introducing Randy’s five essentials that will guide you through the exciting experience of finding your dress.
Your Story
Your Plan
Your Gown
Your Body
Your Look

Each one of the essentials will have its own individual post, and once you read and understand the five essentials, you’ll be ready for your dress appointment and be well prepared to say “yes to your dress.” Much like the book I’ll also be mentioning the “Randy Rules” of choosing the right dress, but remember for every rule throughout the process: there will be an exception. That is why the 1st Randy Rule is, “For every rule, there is an exception.” Randy also mentions in his book that as much as you love bending rules you must understand that having direct plans can be very beneficial when selecting not only your dress but also when making important decisions about your wedding.

Jackie S. of Sposa Mia Couture

Randy Fenoli, here he comes!

Hello there beautiful brides! 

May is finally here and the countdown begins! "Countdown to what?", you ask. The countdown to Randy Fenoli's visit, of course! He will be visiting McAllen, Tx on  June 10th, 2012 during the Love is in the Air Wedding Event (For more info call Sposa Mia Couture 956-683-8740) In honor of Randy's visit we will be dedicating this month's posts to him and his book It's all about The Dress. Stay posted for detailed advice straight from Randy's book.

Jackie S. of Sposa Mia Couture

Yummy!

Look at the lovely decadences that have just arrived at our boutique! These mouthwatering delights are not the only treats we have to offer. We have a wide selection of couture head pieces, jewelry, veils and shoes where you are sure to find the perfect accessories to match your style. Our designer delicacies are made out of exquisite materials including silks, fresh water pearls and semi-precious stones. They are also individually designed and handmade for that timeless quality every bride deserves. Come visit Sposa Mia Couture and indulge yourself!

Jackie S. of Sposa Mia Couture

Dream Dress Sale!

DEAR BRIDE TO BE,

IF YOU ARE IN THE SEARCH FOR YOUR DREAM DRESS BUT ARE ON A BUDGET, YOU DONT WANT TO MISS OUR DREAM DRESS SALE EVENT. A BIG SELECTION OF OUR SAMPLE DRESSES WILL BE ON SALE, 40 TO 75% DISCOUNTED FROM REGULAR PRICE. THIS WILL TAKE PLACE FROM FEBRUARY 19 TO MARCH 5 2011.